Funeral

       Some people warned me not to go to the funeral of my friend because of the overwhelming sadness that I might experience. The mother crashed a few times during the service, and the sister paused her speech many times before she could finish her last word to her beloved brother. They tried their best to survive through this with a few jokes, but behind the giggling and small laughters, their hearts are still bleeding. Sadly, they cannot be helped.
       I have been told that once a person died, he or she would no longer experience emotions and would remain peaceful forever. If so, I am happy for the person because nothing matters anymore. But what about the remained family and friends? Endless sadness and regrets. The sister at the funeral told us how much she loved her brother and regretted being mean and bossy. Nothing can be changed now. They might feel better as time passes, but they have been scarred.
       We never know when we have to leave and go back to wherever. I understand that no one can control one's life, and everyone will become helpless when it comes to death. But is it possible not to have regrets of yours, mine, or theirs? Children, a long-distance phone call to home is good enough to comfort parents' uneasiness; friends, a text message is enough to continue a friendship; significant halves, a kiss is one of the sources of warmth.
       I may have lost a friend, but he is still alive in our memories. As a blogger, I hope you all remain happy and thankful everyday as if we are going to lose everything tomorrow.